SURVEY: What do you think: Have you EVER been OFFERED a SHAG and REFEUSED it and WHY?

a friend of mine was a virgin until he met his wife, then he married her ( at like 30 years old). He was a good looking guy, smart as hell, funny and charming, which was his "problem", he couldn't connect with anyone on a level he felt intimate enough. The girl he married is beautiful, smart, charming and successful. Just because 80% of guys have no standards doesnt mean you don't have to. And yes, i have turned down sex.